God loves a broken heart!
“My first heart break came early in life, and Noah was not even aware of how his actions hurt me. You may have experienced the same feeling of rejection from a simple note with a simple question. “do you love me, check yes or no and return to me”. I waited anxiously for his reply and was not prepared for the box checked “NO” on that plain piece of paper.
I did recover from my grammar school heartache to only experience more of the same much later in life as I imagine you have also. I believe we all find our own way to deal with pain and hopefully it is a path that brings healing through the love of Christ.
When the righteous cry for help, the Lord hears and delivers them out of all their troubles. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.—Psalm 34:17-18
Everyone probably has had the experience. similar to that of the writer of the first two paragraphs, of having his or her heart broken. The broken heart may be from loss of a friend, a family member, loss of a job, estrangement from a spouse or loss of a competition. There are many things that can break our hearts. The scripture says, God loves a broken heart! Why? Because we tend to ignore God when things are going well for us.
However, when our hearts are broken, our egos are severely bruised, or we experience pain from a loss and our hearts become contrite. God can begin to heal a broken heart when it is a contrite heart! That is when the doors to our souls are open to God and He can come in. We must be ready to receive God. Unfortunately, many people with broken hearts do not turn to God; instead, they turn to bitterness, drugs, rage and the like. But if they turn to God and ask Him for help, they are on the right path to healing!
So, we must acknowledge our troubles and pain, and pray to God for solace. That act of contrition is the first step. Then, when we have asked God for help, he will hear us: The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.